A few days ago my girlfriend got sick, she needed my help and I
droped her at the hospital and even contributed to her hospital fees
with her mother. I drove them back home, and we had lunch together.
After I went home, In the evening one of my friends asked to go get a
drink somewhere in town, my girlfriend called at about the same time,
and honest as I am; I could not lie, and I told her that I was going
out, then she started freaking out and asking me not to do that,
acting all weird and jealous.
Of course I would not let myself be manipulated by my narcisistic
girlfriend trying to socially isolate me. So I decided to go out
anyways, after agreeing that I would let her know by SMS anytime I go
back home, which I did. Except, I never went out. My friend cancelled
at the last minute and I was home all the time that she was thinking
that I was out. I manipulated her deliberately to make her insecure,
something I still desperatly trying to prevent myself from doing,
since it is not really improving my relationships, (being
manipulative) it only adds stress on it.
My girlfriend and her mother by the way are narcissists, only seing
others as source of narcissistic suply, I observed this since a long
time ago. When we were at the hospital and her mother came asking me
to help her pay for her daughter, I knew it was a bad idea, and that
will only create more demand from them; Since I had no cash on me, I
had to drive all the way to the bank to withdraw some money to hand
to her, which would also be interpreted by them as some sort of
weakness and proof that they can get endless suply from me. My
prediction was that within a few days they will again ask for some
money.
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