Borderlines and Lies

One of the most important aspects of borderline personality disorder is the ability of the borderline to produce lies that sound true in the purpose of manipulating, attracting attention, compassion, and other things like that.

Take this simply, i was out with a couple of friends and started telling stories after stories about a funeral that i did not even attend, and they believed me. Looking back i try to figure out what keep causing this behavior and I have decided i should come up with a couple of rules for the borderlines in social situation. Since we lack or have very little emotional intelligence, whenever a borderline is hanging out with others they should 

- Always speak the truth.
- If nothing complimentary to say, hold the silence and allow others to make the conversation.

This may sound intuitive to most people, but really is a big challenge to the Borderline. Hopefully by exercising enough this can become second nature and the borderline will no longer need to think about it as it will come as a reflex.

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